If we are married can we …
- Remain totally monogamous?
- Be vegetarian?
- Sunbathe naked?
- Gather at Stonehenge for the winter Solstice?
- … whatever you can dream up
It is unfortunate that most (rather lazily) let the notion of marriage define their relationship, rather than use their relationship to create their marriage. In fact, there are as many different “marriages” are there are couples.
Your marriage is whatever you and your partner declare it to be.
Yet you alone decide and declare Who You Really Are.
This is the delicious paradox of our existence, that we have no need of any other to Be Who We Really Are, yet need others in order to express Who We Really Are.
The tension between the Now and the Not Yet is sensed at all times.