What every gal needs to consider
So you’ve met Mr Great and settled in together. Wonderful!
And of course you expect him to be monogamous. (and fair enough too!)
But just realise the implications of what you are creating. You are saying to him that you are now the one and only woman on the face of the entire planet that he can kiss, touch, caress, shag, … (you get the idea).
You are actually placing an enormous responsibility on yourself.
Imagine if he needed a certain medication that he was unable to self-administer, and you were his nurse. He is now dependent on you. He has no choice in the matter.
If you demand or expect monogamy, you have limited his choices of sexual partner to exactly one! You!
I’ll say it again … You are actually placing an enormous responsibility on yourself.
It is my observation that many woman don’t get this. Don’t get it at all.